Connecting with Others

This week we commemorated Sh’va Asar b’Tamuz, the 17th of Tammuz, a fast day in the Jewish calendar and a day to commemorate the breaching of the walls in Jerusalem, which led to the destruction of the Second Temple (70 CE). On this day we also mark the destruction of the First Temple (586 BCE) and other tragedies of the Jewish people. One of the messages that our rabbis teach about this period of destruction in Jewish history is that Jews must not repeat the errors of the past. Most importantly, we learn that sinat chinam, senseless hatred between Jews, led to the destruction of the 2nd Temple in Jerusalem, and in order to prevent future calamities, each generation that commemorates the destruction must work to overcome the temptation to act or speak against others with sinat chinam.

This message of connection and openness to others, confronting bias and senseless hatred was ringing in the halls of Shaarei Tikvah on Thursday afternoon this week when I hosted a group of high school students from White Plains High School at Shaarei Tikvah. My friend and colleague, Rev. Lee Trollinger who participated in our community’s conversations about racism and privilege last August, requested that I spend some time with him and these students so that they could learn about the Jewish religion and our shared values. This annual program was implemented by the City of White Plains Youth Bureau through the Calvary Baptist Church of which Rev. Trollinger is the pastor. The Church helps the students from White Plains High School learn about civic engagement and community based organizations in Lower Westchester. The goal of the program is to engage students with new concepts by meeting various leaders of organizations, which will help them grow as individuals.

Our hour and a half together was fun, honest, and intellectually engaging. I offered the students a tour of our sanctuary and beit midrash and taught them about our rituals and the significance behind them. The students had many questions about the objects they saw and the explanations I offered. Rev. Trollinger explained the significance of the relationship between Jews and African Americans and we had a conversation about our shared experiences of slavery and how that impacts the way we respond to injustice. These students were asked to challenge assumptions and express their opinions honestly so that we could all learn from one another. As a group, we valued diversity of opinion, which allowed for more honest and interesting discussions about issues connected with the Jewish relationship with Israel and American politics. It was powerful that within a synagogue space, which promotes diversity of opinion, we were able to foster a dialogue in which students of various experiences and a diversity of opinions were able to learn from one another.

The polarization of our communities have made many important conversations taboo. And yet, we must remember that our relationships with one another can be strengthened if we are open to listening to opinions and ideas of those with whom we disagree. I am sure it was not easy for these students to walk into a space about which they knew nothing. In fact, none of these students had ever stepped into a synagogue before, and yet, they left with a new sense of understanding and connection. My prayer over these three weeks leading to the 9th of Av is that we can find space to engage in discussion with those who disagree with us in order to promote civil engagement and diversity of thought in our communities.



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What Doesn’t Kill Me Makes Me Stronger

An unlikely pair, Friedrich Nietzsche, 19th century German philosopher, and Kelly Clarkson, 21st century American singer and songwriter, share at least one thing in common: They have both published the idea that what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger. And interestingly, the Jewish calendar, especially in the summer, promotes this idea in its calendrical messaging.

The summer months are not generally known for their holidays. High Holidays in the fall, Chanukah generally in the winter, and Passover in the spring are the big ones for American Jews. And yet, Tish’a b’Av, the 9th of Av, is an
important annual psychological experience for Jews nationally and individually.

Tish’a b’Av and the three weeks that precede it create space within the Jewish calendar to remember national
sadness and loss. We mark an occasion which recalls the siege and destruction of the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem by reading Eicha, Lamentations. In chapter 3 of that book we read a description of the author’s deep sadness and a hope for redemption:

“They have cut off my life in the dungeon, and have cast stones upon me. Waters flowed over my head; I said: ‘I am cut off.’ I called upon Your name, O LORD, Out of the lowest dungeon. You heard my voice; hide not Your ear at my sighing, at my cry. You drew near in the day that I called upon You; You said: ‘Fear not.’ O Lord, You have pleaded the causes of my soul; You have redeemed my life. O LORD, You have seen my wrong; You judge my cause. (chapter 3, verses 53-59).”

The author recalls a feeling of complete abandonment, paired with the feeling of God’s presence. It is both the
experience of grief and comfort that find their way into this memory, and it is their pairing that gives us reason to read it each year and relive these emotions, in order to connect our own emotional experience to an ancient one. Reading Eicha as a community reminds us that tears are ever present for us—both communally and personally. As a people we have known oppression again and again, and yet, the knowledge that we have bounced back from these experiences of loss and pain build a resilience within us that focuses our cause even as we wipe tears from our eyes.

Rabbi Louis Jacobs explains how Jews differ from Buddhists in this regard. He argues that Judaism is more activist than Buddhism. To demonstrate this he compares Moses and Buddha. Both were raised in the king’s palace and when they left the walls of the palace, they experienced with horror a world filled with pain, injustice, and
suffering. However, Jacobs asserts that while Buddha’s enlightenment “consists in his realization that desire is the cause of suffering and the aim of man should be to rise above all desire,” Moses reacts to suffering
by “allowing the desire for a better world to lead to his fighting injustice and helping his brethren emerge from slavery and bondage.” (Jacobs, What does Judaism Say About…?) Moses and Buddha both see the terrible
condition of human beings. However, while Buddha does not encourage contentment or discontent, Moses teaches that divine discontent can cause humanity’s condition to improve.

Recalling our experience of loss reminds us that grief is a normal part of our human condition. There is no escaping sadness and grief. And yet, Jews are encouraged to have hope and to trust that comfort can still emerge from
discomfort. To quote the words of Isaiah, whose words we recite in the haftarah after Tisha b’Av, “kol koreh bamidbar, panu derech Adonai. Yashru ba’aravah mesilah l’Eloheinu.” “A voice rings out, ‘clear in the desert a road for the Lord! Level in the wilderness a highway for God!’” (40:3)

Isaiah reminds us that comfort after loss will come. However, it will not come without a voice calling for a new path in the wilderness. And that voice will ultimately lead to those working diligently to build a road to a better world, one in which the path of justice and righteousness is clear to walk down.

Isaiah’s prophecy reminds us that the work of forging a path is always available to us—even when it is not
convenient or when it doesn’t seem like the tools for building that road are available to us. And yet, our Tradition tells us that we must persist if we are to see a better world. These words urge us to ask ourselves the question: What do we, as a community, do to confront injustice?

This season at Shaarei Tikvah, we are expanding our social action work to include advocacy on behalf of
undocumented immigrants in America. By forging a new path for people who want to build a home here in
America, often escaping from dangerous places in search of a safer place to raise a family, we are supporting their right to lead a better life. By advocating for the vulnerable, we are helping others find a new path after loss with the hope that comfort will soon arrive.

During these months, let us listen to voices of our ancestors (as well as philosophers and American idol winners) and remember that witnessing pain and sadness is important for the purpose of strengthening our resolve to
respond with action and build a better world.

B’tikvah, with hope,

Rabbi Baldachin




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Justice, Justice: New Initiative Launched


On May 17th, we had an extraordinary gathering to discuss our next campaign. This would not be a political campaign, but rather, a social justice campaign, aimed at coalescing around an issue in society that calls for a response.

Shaarei Tikvah already has a rich history of social action through our food donation programs and other activities. We are now expanding to include social justice issues with the goal of solving systemic problems at the root of the issue. As a community we are greater than the sum of our parts, and through a unified voice we can make an impact on an issue of moral conscience if we are organized and educated on the issue itself.

Since we are a community that cares, choosing one area of injustice was not an easy task. However, a thoughtful process helped us to move forward. Ultimately, our group settled on immigrant rights. The stories that were shared were powerful. A number of congregants shared that their own family’s story of emigration to the US reminded them of their responsibility to support the plight of immigrants in the country today. Ultimately, as one volunteer stated, we are fortunate to have been born into these circumstances. Chance made it possible for us to live in this country in the 21st century. We could have easily been born before WWII or today in a country whose citizens are being persecuted. Therefore, we have a responsibility to acknowledge our fortune by supporting others who are not so fortunate.

As a community, we will educate ourselves and find ways to advocate and support the fair treatment of human beings living in our communities. For example, recently, a senior at Ossining High School, Diego Puma, was arrested on the day of his high school prom by US Immigration and Customs Enforcement, or ICE, accused of being connected to gangs in Ecuador. Community activists are advocating a stay of removal and have support of local and federal politicians. The Ecuadorian government has confirmed that Diego has never had a criminal record nor any affiliation with any gangs in Ecuador.

This is an example of the kind of work that we may be involved in going forward. If you are interested in receiving information on ways to advocate for undocumented immigrants’ rights, please email Robin in our office at . If you have a particular passion for immigrant rights and want to get more involved with our committee, please email Rabbi Adam at .


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Dayeinu For Today

More than most other Jewish experiences during the calendar year, we love to celebrate Passover. A 2013 survey by the Pew Research Center found that American Jews frequent a Seder in surprisingly high numbers. While only 23% of U.S. Jews said they attend religious services at least monthly, 70% said they participated in a Seder last year. That includes 42% of Jews of no religion (those who consider themselves Jewish in some way, were raised Jewish or had a Jewish parent, but say they are atheist or agnostic or have no particular religion.)

So, what is it about Passover that speaks to American Jews? I imagine that in large part … Read more

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Esther’s Use of Prayer and its Impact on Ours: Finding the Right Words in a Broken World

I have always been amazed by Esther’s bravery. As we will read in the Megilla on Purim, Queen Esther approaches King Achashverosh in order to petition him to spare the Jews from the evil plot of Haman. Esther acknowledges that she is putting her life at risk in order to ask to see the king. The law is harsh—whoever enters into the inner court to see the king without being invited shall be put to death. If Achashverosh offers Esther his golden scepter, however, she will be spared and can plea for the fate of the Jewish people. In preparation for this meeting, Esther calls a three day fast for all the Jews in Shushan in order to pray for the continued existence of the Jewish people.… Read more

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The Fierce Urgency of Now: Wading in the Waters of Activism

Sermon at the The Ministers’ Fellowship Council of White Plains and Vicinity along with the White Plains Religious Leaders
3rd Annual Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Joint Worship Service
Calvary Baptist Church of White Plains, 188 Orawaupum Street, White Plains, NY, 7pm, 1/15/17

I first want to thank Reverend Trollinger and Pastor Dalton for giving me the opportunity to address this honored assembly this evening. Each year, as I remember Dr. King’s Legacy by joining with others for worship, rededication to our shared values, and volunteering to help those in need, I am recharged for the year ahead.
This year however seems more challenging. Regardless of your political affiliation, it is a dark time because we as a country are particularly divided today.… Read more

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Thoughts after the Election

Dear Shaarei Tikvah family,

Today has been a day of mixed emotions. Some are experiencing jubilation, while others are filled with anxiety, confusion, and deep sadness. It has been an incredibly trying time for our nation. The results from the election have ended an incredibly tense and at times nauseating campaign season, filled with vitriol and an overwhelming sense that America has been ripped apart with two distinct and conflicting narratives. The shock of the results leaves many with a sense of hopelessness, searching for meaning in a country that may now seem different, even unrecognizable.

Donald Trump’s victory raises an awareness of just how many people want radical change for our country, and a different path forward. We don’t know exactly what that path will be, and right now it seems obscure. … Read more

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Thank you!

Thank you for an incredibly warm welcome to Shaarei Tikvah! While I can’t thank everyone who has played a role in offering us such a warm welcome, I want to express our tremendous gratitude for the open arms with which you have greeted our family. We are thrilled to call Shaarei Tikvah our new spiritual home and have enjoyed getting to know our new surroundings and meeting our new neighbors- both in the Scarsdale community and through our synagogue community. My wife, Maital and I are excited to meet all of you at upcoming events as well as introducing you to our three children.… Read more

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World Wide Wrap-up

Not Just Camels and Hummus

JOIN ME— on a fantastic tour of Israel with ITC Tours in 2017. Dates and details to follow.

Please consider joining me on an incredible trip to Israel. I am so excited and proud that our congregation is embarking on a journey to Israel for joint purpose of building relationships with one another as well as creating a strong bond between us, Israel, and her citizens.

I still remember the incredible feeling I experienced of visiting Israel for the first time at the age of 14. After singing and cheering when the plane landed, I disembarked and kissed the ground (yes, it was gross but highly spiritual)! I was so grateful to walk in the footsteps of my ancestors and to experience the culture and the beauty of the only Jewish State– a place where around the whole country on Friday and Saturday every person, whether religious or secular says “shabbat shalom.” This is the only place where on Yom Kippur there are more bicycles on the roads than cars, where the ancient language of Hebrew is spoken, and where people drink chocolate milk from a bag. It is the place where Judaism is lived whether you are on the beach of the Mediterranean in Tel Aviv, the shuk (market) in Jerusalem, on the top of Metzada, or in the shadow of Robinson’s arch at the Western Wall. It is the place that Jews have dreamed about for countless generations.

To quote Jewish physician, poet, and philosopher Yehudah Halevi (c. 11-12th century), “My heart is in the East, and I am at the ends of the West.” I often feel similarly to Yehuda Halevi. Israel represents the birth place of my mother, the place my parents met, the home of my uncles, aunts, and cousins. It is the place where the Bible comes to life, where I can walk in the same places as my earliest ancestors and learn the texts that were compiled in the same places that I can study them. It is a powerful place to be– a place of beautiful simplicity and messy, complicated reality. It is a place of peace and moral values and it is a place with a history of tension and multiple narratives.

But more than anything else, Israel is a place of hope. It inspires us to live moral lives, to believe in diversity while remaining true to our beliefs. It is the result of millennia of prayer and dreaming. And of course, the young country that Israel is, she is a work in progress—finding a balance between the values of a democracy and a home for a people, persecuted through the ages. The voices of the rabbis, the priests, and the prophets of our heritage ring clearly through the streets and the valleys, in conversation with one another.

As Jews who care about our shared story of a people in search of our homeland and securing our future on this earth, we must commit to forging a relationship with Israel and her people—to study her history and know the modern issues which shape her character and her future. As American Jews, our voices matter. I believe it is essential that we know Israel in order to develop a love of Israel, in order to commit ourselves to a lifelong conversation and relationship with Israel.

Please consider the opportunity to begin or continue your relationship with Israel on this incredible journey. The trip includes a tour of Israel by an excellent tour guide, including visits to Jerusalem, Cesarea, Lake Kinneret and the Galilee, Golan Heights, Masada, the Dead Sea, Tel Aviv, and more. This trip is designed as a multi generational tour, with activities for all ages and many meals will be provided throughout the trip. We will visit, listen, discuss, learn, breathe, sing, break bread, laugh, and pray together. It will be an incredible experience.

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Countering Fear and Violence by Coming Together

Dear Friends,

On Thursday night of last week we entered into the new month of Av. Av is a month of sadness in the midst of destruction, yet it also contains within it the seeds of hope. The beginning of Av introduces the “nine days,” which culminates in the ninth day of the Hebrew month Av, or in Hebrew, Tish’a b’Av, a 25-hour fast which falls this year on the weekend of August 13th-14th. It began as a mournful remembrance of the historical event of the destruction of the Temple by the Babylonians and went on to incorporate many other national catastrophes, up to and including the Holocaust in the 20th century. Our Tradition teaches that Tish’a b’Av calls forth the belief that these national disasters were the result of internal divisiveness, which prevented communal unity and a functioning system of justice. This undermined the nation’s ability to overcome both its external enemies and its internal challenges.

We know this divisiveness as sinat chinam, baseless hatred between individuals. It refers to that kind of enmity that is so irrationally strong as to be oblivious to the cost that it exacts from both the hater and the hated. On Tish’a b’Av, we are to be mindful of this horrible human tendency, and, through the fast, resolve to bring the opposite, ahavat chinam, boundless love, into our community. As it is written in Isaiah 58:6: “This is the fast that I desire: to unlock the fetters of wickedness, and untie the cords of the yoke; to let the oppressed go free, and to break off every yoke.” We, of many different religious faiths, have much along these lines to think about in our American society today as well as many commitments and resolutions that need to be made for the future. Our national conversation is filled with fear and mistrust rather than hope, love, and sharing of our common core values.

As Jews, It is our responsibility to root out the hatred in our midst and to care for those that are marginalized or treated unfairly, as the Torah guides us, lo ta’amod al dam re’echa, “Do not stand idly by the blood of your neighbor” (Leviticus 19:16). Recent attacks against African Americans and against police officers have caused a rupture in our country’s soul. We have witnessed an upsurge in hatred and violence as well as rising inequality and racial injustice, which greatly impacts people’s lives. In response, we are called to commit ourselves to overcoming these challenges and work towards creating equal opportunities for power, access, and treatment for all people, regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, sex, sexuality, religion, country of origin, or any other classification used to unlawfully and immorally divide people. Our faith demands it, and our world requires it.

In order to heal and find a way forward together, we will be hosting members of other faith communities in central Westchester at Shaarei Tikvah on Sunday, August 14, from 3:00pm to 5:00pm. Here we will discuss the brokenness we face in America while planning together for a better future for our country and its citizens. Joining together as neighbors and people of faith will help us to better understand each other and restore hope in our country. Together, we can work towards fulfilling Isaiah’s words, to observe the “fast that God desires.”


With Blessing,


Rabbi Adam

Interfaith Gathering

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